Raising Twins as Quadraplegic

     Dani Izzie's story is proof that you can live a normal life after being diagnosed with a disability. When Dani was 23, she slipped on a bathroom floor and became paralyzed from the waist down. Today, she is considered quadriplegic with incomplete paralysis. She has paralysis in her fingers, triceps, abdominals, and back muscles. After receiving her diagnosis, Dani realized she had two options: she could either give up or continue to pursue her dreams. 

    Dani's positive outlook led her to pursing dating apps. She met her now husband Rudy, and in April of 2020 they were blessed with twin girls. Undoubtedly, Dani and Rudy faced many challenges. But who doesn't face challenges as first time parents? Not to mention, those with twins! Just as other successful parents do, Dani and Rudy adapt and support one another. 

    In the CBS news article, Dani described some of the hurtful backlash she and her husband received. People made comments describing her behavior as selfish and stating she shouldn't be taking care of others when she can't take care of herself. However, those who know Dani best know that she is fully capable of taking care of herself and others. In fact, Dani described her pregnancy as empowering. It reminded her that her "broken body" was not as broken as people may think. 

    Dani's story is an excellent example of how mindset and perseverance can influence recovery. Without her tenacity and meaningful aspirations, Dani wouldn't be the strong and successful mother she is today. "Normal" looks different for everyone, and Dani's story is no exception. I chose this story because as an OT, we can be the hopeful influence in a client's life. We can help them achieve their hopes and wishes despite their diagnosis. I would highly recommend this resource to someone with an SCI or other disability. It is an excellent example of defying any odds or stigma placed against you. In addition to this CBS News Article, there is a documentary titled Dani's Twins that was produced by one of the family's friends. 

Cowan, L. (2023, June 11). A quadriplegic mother on raising twins: “Having a disability is not the end of         the world.” CBS News. https://www.cbsnews.com/news/dani-s-twins-documentary-quadriplegic-               mother-on-raising-twins/